- Work or Business Management: good.
- Sex Management: bad !
Possible Consequences: alcoholism, drug addiction, anger, frustrations, erratic behavior with partner and children.
Understand the difference between 'Sexual Desire' and 'Physical Arousal'
- Sexual Desire: An interest in sex
- Physical Arousal: Body's physical response such as vaginal lubrication or the ability to have an erection.
SEX-DRIVE KILLERS:
1/ Disorganized Life:
- As we take on more adult responsibilities, the strong desire for sex that we experienced in our youth often takes a huge nosedive. Between work, kids, friendships, school, hobbies, volunteer work, homemaking and exercise, there just doesn't seem to be time for sex. When we do get a minute of free time, often the last thing we want to do is spend it in an amorous cuddle. Watching TV, reading a good book or stealing a few extra minutes of sleep can seem so much more gratifying. It's not that we don't want to have sex, it has just become a low priority.
- Sex, however, is an important part of an adult relationship. Just as we need to make time for ourselves, we also need to make time for our partners.
- Scheduling sex into your calendar may make you giggle, but if that's what it takes -- do it!
- Designate a night or two a week to spend quality romantic time with your partner.
- Make a game of it: Take turns bringing something new to the bedroom, such as an illustrated book, video or technique.
- By planning ahead, you're making a commitment to yourself, your partner and the relationship, a commitment you'll keep -- just as you'd keep a meeting you scheduled with your best friend, your child's teacher or a business associate.
to be continued..........
based on http://www2.thirdage.com/articles/nine-sex-drive-killers
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