NOT BLOWING WELL COULD BE A RELATIONSHIP BREAKER!

I felt an urgent need to write this post due to two major reasons:

A/ There is an alarming increase of penetrative sex in teens exposing them to the risks of STD, particularly HIV/AIDS.

B/ Lack of understanding of the techniques of oral sex can be a relationship breaker in partners/marriage.

For some, oral sex is considered taboo. For others, it's a critical part of a healthy sexual life.

Here are tips to help men and women with some of the most common oral-sex problems:

Women
Swallowing:
If you don't like to swallow semen, don't feel guilty. The majority of women don't enjoy this (it's estimated that only 25 percent of women swallow semen). Remember this: It's your mouth. If you don't like it, you don't have to. Your partner can still be fully satisfied if you don't swallow his semen.

Gagging Reflex:
If you have a gagging reflex while performing oral sex on your partner, breathing through your nose can help.

Men and women
Feedback:
Be sure to give your partner adequate feedback on his/her sexual performance. It's not good enough to say: "It was fine, or you're doing great." Be more specific so you can be sure to touch your partner in the way he or she likes to be touched.

Stimulation:
Try different types of stimulation to determine which level of pressure makes your partner more aroused. Some women prefer a softer touch, while others like more intensity. The same is true for men.

For the Neck:
Consider resting your chin on your hand or a pillow so you don't exhaust your neck muscles while performing oral sex on your partner.

Pubic Hair:
If pubic hair is a problem, sweep across, part with your hands so you can prevent loose hairs from getting into your mouth.

Taste:
Beer and coffee tend to make semen taste bitter and the more protein a man eats, the thicker and gummier his semen. Vegetarians have the lightest taste of all.

Genital Fluid:
Don't worry about ingesting genital fluid. Realize that genital fluid is hygienic. In fact, it's cleaner than the saliva in your mouth unless, of course, one or both partners have an infection. In that case, flavored or non lubricated condoms should be used to prevent the passage of a sexually transmitted disease (STD).

Don't push too far!:

Don't feel obliged to perform oral sex on a man if he pushes your head down toward his penis. Tell him that's not OK. You'll be doing yourself and other women (should they follow you) a favor. It's only OK if you willingly want to perform oral sex on him, and he wants it, too.

Sex During Menses:
It's perfectly safe to perform oral sex on a woman during her period. There is no risk of endangering your health, unless of course the woman has an infection or an STD.

Relationship Breakers:

If there's an act that's important to your satisfaction and your partner isn't willing to perform it, recognize that it can be a relationship deal breaker. Be open to trying to troubleshoot issues with your partner to help him or her become more comfortable.

Your Choice:
If neither you nor your partner like oral sex, don't be concerned. It doesn't mean your sex life isn't complete. There is more to intense joy and happiness than just oral sex.
( post based on information: http://health.discovery.com/)