SEX: The First Timer

Understand it!










1. It will NOT go the way you plan, it is best to plan only the birth control, time and place.

2. If you are a girl; it will not feel very good - if you are a boy; it will be over so fast you won't know for sure how it felt.

3. You WILL be nervous and maybe a little scared - not necessarily in a bad way.

4. You will feel different about yourself and the other person - not necessarily in a bad way

5. . You will NOT suddenly be a woman or a man.

6. You may feel guilty that you are actually wanting to have sex - try to remember sex is perfectly natural and normal and not something to feel guilty about.

7. As long as you know you are ready, and care about the person you are with, you will enjoy yourself.

8. If you don't respect your partner, or you know they don't resepct you, you will have regrets.

9. If you love, or are loved by your partner, you may still have regrets.

10. Regrets are normal. You have lost something - your virginity - it is natural and normal to mourn that loss.
(based on-http://teenadvice.about.com/library/weekly/aa051500b.htm)