Situations In Which She Wants Sex

After exercise

A workout has a number of mood-enhancing physiological effects, and a woman in a good mood is ready for it.

First, exercise releases endorphins that make girls feel happy. Second, a good workout helps detoxify the body from the inside out via the lymphatic system, making all body systems function more effectively -- including the reproductive side of things. Third, your girl is doing something positive for her body; she doesn’t have to feel guilty anymore for the cakes she ate or if she hasn’t been to the gym for a long time.


When she’s angry

Aggression is a strange but powerful aphrodisiac. Ever wonder why make-up sex is so good? Being fired up gets her aggressive side going, and aggressive women love sex. The trouble with angry sex is that if she’s mad at you -- which, let's face it, is highly likely -- she isn’t going to want to let you win by having sex with you. It is a juxtaposition that she will find highly confusing -- her desire undermines her by making her want you even more than she normally does, but if she were to follow through on this desire, she would be voiding the argument.

The best way to take the heat out of her head and re channel it into her knickers is to be exceptionally cute and sexy. Acting like a sweet puppy will take the fire out of her -- who can be angry with a cute little pup? Once you successfully charm her, you can then take full advantage of her passionate rage.

Another good way to let out some pent-up aggression and frustration is to wrestle with each other -- fun wrestling, of course. The good thing about this is that you are probably a lot stronger than her, which means that she gets to really fight you. This will fire her up in no time. It is a fun way to let it all out, and it often ends in sex because of the close body contact and high energy levels involved.

Good luck.

BE CRAZY AND MAKE LOVE...FOR A GOOD HEALTH!

Many a times I come across this question:
How often should I have sex?

My answer is simple:
As often as you can!

There is a book written by a couple who had sex 101 days non stop-"Just do it".
They planned and just did it!

Though it may depend on a person to person, there are

For a healthy life,
at least 10 reasons to make love. !

1.Exercise.
"Sexual activity is a form of physical exercise," according to Dr. Michael Cirigliano of the University of Pennsylvania School of Medicine. Making love three times a week burns around 7,500 calories in a year -- the equivalent of jogging 75 miles.

2. Heavy Breathing.
A night of love can raise the amount of oxygen in cells, helping to keep organs and tissues functioning at their peak.

3. Strong Bones and Muscles.
"Any kind of physical exercise is going to increase testosterone," states Dr. Karen Donahey, director of the Sex and Marital Therapy Program at Chicago's Northwestern University Medical Center. Testosterone is believed to help keep men's bones and muscles strong.

4. Lowered Cholesterol.
Making love regularly can lower levels of the body's total cholesterol slightly, while positively changing the ratio of good-to-bad cholesterol.

5. Pain Relief.
Sex can lower levels of "arthritic pain, whiplash pain and headache pain," according to Dr. Beverly Whipple, president-elect of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists. Hormones that are released during sexual excitement and orgasm can elevate pain thresholds.

6. DHEA.
Without Supplements. DHEA (dehydroepiandrosterone), a popular supplemental hormone, is released naturally during lovemaking. "Just before orgasm and ejaculation," Crenshaw says, "DHEA spikes to levels three to five times higher than usual."

7. Prostate Protection.
Researchers say prostate trouble may arise or be worsened by fluid buildup within the gland. Regular ejaculation will help wash out those fluids. Be cautious when suddenly changing frequency -- sudden changes may also trigger prostate problems. 8. Stress Relief. "Sex can be a very effective way of reducing stress levels," Donahey told Men's Health.

9. Love Will Keep Us Together.
Crenshaw says affectionate touch will increase levels of oxytocin -- the "bonding hormone." Oxytocin is a desire-enhancing chemical secreted by the pituitary. Regular oxytocin release may help encourage frequent lovemaking.

10. Hormones
Naturally. "Regular lovemaking can increase a woman's estrogen level, protect her heart and keep her vaginal tissues more supple," states Donahey.
SOURCE: Men's Health (November 1997, p. 104-108)

Not necessarily the luckiest, richest, or most successful; are you just the happiest?

If not, why not?

Most people will reel off their current worries — the job, the kids, the car, the price of fish. I don’t mean to sweep these aside: problems need to be solved, if you can, or waited out until they disappear . But as far as living happily is concerned you have to face a crucial fact. If you can only live happily after all your problems are solved, you are never going to live happily, because when today’s problems are gone and forgotten, others will take their place. So either living happily is just impossible, or you have to do it in spite of your problems.

Being happy depends not so much on external circumstances as on your inner life. This means all your thoughts, perceptions, beliefs, emotions, desires, dreams — your entire mental and emotional scene.

Happiness is about how you react inwardly to events, what you think and believe, how you feel, how problems affect you. It may sound obvious, but like many obvious things it’s something that is often forgotten when it matters most. We focus almost exclusively on our external lives, on getting and spending and having fun, and then wonder why we are not happy.

But it’s when our inner lives are tranquil that we are happiest and we call this inner peace.

To be continued......