HAPPINESS IN 2010- MAKE INNOVATIVE NEW YEAR SEX RESOLUTION

"make an innovative sex resolution for the new year"










It's going to be six months in USA when I came from India.

Recently I was traveling on NJ Transit from New Brunswick to Penn station NYC when my co passenger asked me,

"Excuse me, I think I have read your blog " ah, towards intense joy". Can I ask you how can we attain happiness in the coming year of 2010?"

I looked at her. A Caucasian? A Greek? Just one of the faces among the crowd. Only her eyes. Very expressive and a bit sad. I got it.

I thought for a while and then said boldly,

"make an innovative sex resolution for the new year".

She seemed to be taken a back a bit.
"Whaat dooo youuu mean?"

An embarrassment and amusement perhaps, I thought.
I said, "you asked me a question and I replied".
"Can you elaborate," she was opening up now.
"of course" and I continued.
" Happiness and sex has a strong and established bond. Nevertheless," I added hastily,
"only a good sex may not lead to a complete happiness.
So let 2010 be the year for your personal sexual revolution via these red-hot resolutions:

Invite sex:
Even when you don’t feel the urge, invite it. Be more spontaneous. This could mean touching your partner more, suggesting a new sex position or your lover away to a secluded location.

Plan your monthly or yearly program:
Discuss with partner a work out plan, get good sex books and ensure that both of you stick to it.

Plan sexual adventures:
In every room, kitchen, bathroom. While on Holidays- in forest, near the stream, behind a tree, on the snow, clothes on or off etc. (Note: be careful in public places like rest rooms, aircraft toilets etc. People don't like it though may like to do themselves in such exotic places!)

Learn more tricks:
I mean pre and post sex maneuvers and techniques to keep the fire burning all the year round! Go for more dates Get involved in all sorts of erotic talks Ask for what you want and ask her what she wants: Get videos on oral sex and other exotic sex...."

" Sorry, though I hate I have to go. My station is about to come"

I looked out of the window. Lindon was approaching. I looked at her and wished her, "Happy 2010". She nodded, smiled with a faint twinkle in her blue eyes and left

Situations In Which She Wants Sex

After exercise

A workout has a number of mood-enhancing physiological effects, and a woman in a good mood is ready for it.

First, exercise releases endorphins that make girls feel happy. Second, a good workout helps detoxify the body from the inside out via the lymphatic system, making all body systems function more effectively -- including the reproductive side of things. Third, your girl is doing something positive for her body; she doesn’t have to feel guilty anymore for the cakes she ate or if she hasn’t been to the gym for a long time.


When she’s angry

Aggression is a strange but powerful aphrodisiac. Ever wonder why make-up sex is so good? Being fired up gets her aggressive side going, and aggressive women love sex. The trouble with angry sex is that if she’s mad at you -- which, let's face it, is highly likely -- she isn’t going to want to let you win by having sex with you. It is a juxtaposition that she will find highly confusing -- her desire undermines her by making her want you even more than she normally does, but if she were to follow through on this desire, she would be voiding the argument.

The best way to take the heat out of her head and re channel it into her knickers is to be exceptionally cute and sexy. Acting like a sweet puppy will take the fire out of her -- who can be angry with a cute little pup? Once you successfully charm her, you can then take full advantage of her passionate rage.

Another good way to let out some pent-up aggression and frustration is to wrestle with each other -- fun wrestling, of course. The good thing about this is that you are probably a lot stronger than her, which means that she gets to really fight you. This will fire her up in no time. It is a fun way to let it all out, and it often ends in sex because of the close body contact and high energy levels involved.

Good luck.

BE CRAZY AND MAKE LOVE...FOR A GOOD HEALTH!

Many a times I come across this question:
How often should I have sex?

My answer is simple:
As often as you can!

There is a book written by a couple who had sex 101 days non stop-"Just do it".
They planned and just did it!

Though it may depend on a person to person, there are

For a healthy life,
at least 10 reasons to make love. !

1.Exercise.
"Sexual activity is a form of physical exercise," according to Dr. Michael Cirigliano of the University of Pennsylvania School of Medicine. Making love three times a week burns around 7,500 calories in a year -- the equivalent of jogging 75 miles.

2. Heavy Breathing.
A night of love can raise the amount of oxygen in cells, helping to keep organs and tissues functioning at their peak.

3. Strong Bones and Muscles.
"Any kind of physical exercise is going to increase testosterone," states Dr. Karen Donahey, director of the Sex and Marital Therapy Program at Chicago's Northwestern University Medical Center. Testosterone is believed to help keep men's bones and muscles strong.

4. Lowered Cholesterol.
Making love regularly can lower levels of the body's total cholesterol slightly, while positively changing the ratio of good-to-bad cholesterol.

5. Pain Relief.
Sex can lower levels of "arthritic pain, whiplash pain and headache pain," according to Dr. Beverly Whipple, president-elect of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists. Hormones that are released during sexual excitement and orgasm can elevate pain thresholds.

6. DHEA.
Without Supplements. DHEA (dehydroepiandrosterone), a popular supplemental hormone, is released naturally during lovemaking. "Just before orgasm and ejaculation," Crenshaw says, "DHEA spikes to levels three to five times higher than usual."

7. Prostate Protection.
Researchers say prostate trouble may arise or be worsened by fluid buildup within the gland. Regular ejaculation will help wash out those fluids. Be cautious when suddenly changing frequency -- sudden changes may also trigger prostate problems. 8. Stress Relief. "Sex can be a very effective way of reducing stress levels," Donahey told Men's Health.

9. Love Will Keep Us Together.
Crenshaw says affectionate touch will increase levels of oxytocin -- the "bonding hormone." Oxytocin is a desire-enhancing chemical secreted by the pituitary. Regular oxytocin release may help encourage frequent lovemaking.

10. Hormones
Naturally. "Regular lovemaking can increase a woman's estrogen level, protect her heart and keep her vaginal tissues more supple," states Donahey.
SOURCE: Men's Health (November 1997, p. 104-108)